Whoa! Anon you are letting stupid societal stereotypes make you feel bad about yourself. It doesn’t matter if you don’t wear flannel or if you have good guy friends… I am great friends with guys and I have many amazing straight friends! Those are dumb assumptions that people make toward lesbians! It can be hard to get through all of the pressure but you are not alone. A lot of us have been in this position and it will get better! Keep your head up and try to reach out to those close to you so you aren’t going through this journey alone!